Guest Post: 5 Ways to Tell If an Online Dating Site Is Worth the Money

With more and more single people choosing to search for companionship online instead of waiting to meet them in the real world, many different types of dating sites have appeared over the last few years. Meeting your potential mate has become more of a science and for some online dating sites, big business. Of course most of these sites do cost money, so before signing up for a dating service make sure it is worth the money you’ll invest. Here are 5 ways to make sure you’ve made a good choice.

Dating or marriage. There are all kinds of dating sites available, so the first step to choosing a site to sign up for is to decide what you are looking for, dating or marriage. There are sites that are geared more for casual dating relationships and people just looking to have fun, and others that focus more on marriage and finding that one special person. There is no point in spending money on a site where the other people on the site are looking for a different kind of relationship than you are.

Similar or different interests. Some sites try to match you with someone with the same interests; others are based on the theory that “opposites attract”. If you have been dating people who have similar interests to you and those relationships have not been what you are looking for, maybe it is time to try something new. The opposite is true as well. Whatever way you go, understanding the philosophy of a site helps you determine if it is something you are willing to invest in.

Deal breakers. What must a person have or not have for you to consider dating them? These restrictions are commonly referred to as deal breakers. It could be religion, physical attributes, political beliefs, or any other factor that would cause you to draw the line and not pursue someone. If you’re Jewish and only want to date Jewish women, then you might want to find a Jewish dating site. There is no point in signing up to meet people you would never want to date.

Free trial. Once you have what you are looking for, search out a few sites that meet your criteria and sign up for a free trial. Almost all dating sites allow you to sign up for a free test run for a few days or weeks and allow you to search their site. It will only cost you money once you decide you want to contact another person on the site. By signing up for a few, you can take some time and see what is available on each of them before you spend your money.

Matches. Once you have used the free trial on a few sites, you will most likely find that certain ones draw you to them more than others. How many “matches” or potential dates you get on the sites is a good indicator of whether you should invest in the site or not. Of course, if the site matches you with 30 people and you would not date any of them it may be time to move on.

There are great dating sites for almost any type of person out there. However, finding the right one is the first step in finding the companion you’re looking for. There is no point in wasting time and money on a site that is not going to produce the results you want. By taking the time before hand to do a little research, you can make sure your money is being well spent.

Posted with kind permission from Top Dating Sites

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2 responses to “Guest Post: 5 Ways to Tell If an Online Dating Site Is Worth the Money

  1. I talked to several friends and family members first. They were able to clue me in on the “culture” of several sites, which made it easier to select the one that worked for me. The culture of a site can take time to figure out on your own, so it is worth talking to others first!

  2. I take pleasure in, cause I found exactly what I used to be having a look for. You’ve ended my four day long hunt! God Bless you man. Have a great day. Bye

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